I have forgiven. Truly, I have…But how do I forget?

A lot of people ask this question: “Is it possible to forgive and forget?” Or, “I still remember how deeply this person hurt me, does that mean I haven’t forgiven them?” What they are really asking is, “How do I deal with the negative memories that pop up every now and then, even though I … More I have forgiven. Truly, I have…But how do I forget?

SINGLES, if you’re not happy and content now, you will not be happy and content in marriage

I got married almost two years ago at the age of 36. By most people’s standards, that’s considered late. Not to talk of throwing in the “African” factor. You know those phone calls or conversations with your mother that begin with, “My daughter, is there someone in the picture?” Or, the many times she would … More SINGLES, if you’re not happy and content now, you will not be happy and content in marriage

Don’t get trapped by the “Greener Grass Syndrome”

I remember visiting a friend of mine whom I hadn’t seen in years. This friend was very visible on Facebook regarding her kids. She would go on and on about how they were a constant source of joy, always perfectly behaved and always smiling. So when I visited her I was actually looking forward to […]

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Don’t get trapped by the “Greener Grass Syndrome”

I remember visiting a friend of mine whom I hadn’t seen in years. This friend was very visible on Facebook regarding her kids. She would go on and on about how they were a constant source of joy, always perfectly behaved and always smiling. So when I visited her I was actually looking forward to … More Don’t get trapped by the “Greener Grass Syndrome”

Step 4 to the Marriage of your Dreams: Put a Guard on your Mouth & Mind!

This week I bring you the fourth step towards creating the marriage of your dreams. Missed Steps 1, 2 or 3? Click here to catch up. Step 4: Put a Guard on your Mouth & Mind! Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. Proverbs 4:23 NLT The word “heart” … More Step 4 to the Marriage of your Dreams: Put a Guard on your Mouth & Mind!