Feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in your relationship? This might be why.

You complete me. We’ve all heard it. Ever since the dashing Tom Cruise used that great line to express his undying love for Renee Zellweger. (By the way, Tom Cruise was once my Hollywood crush 👌🏽😂😎) You complete me. It sounds like a great thing to say to one’s spouse. And many couples have indeed … More Feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in your relationship? This might be why.

Unlearning some of the African parenting habits I inherited

I noticed my daughter hurrying through the house. Me: Why are you rushing? Slow down. Daughter: I’m going to do what you told me to. I forgot to do it earlier. Me: Yeah, so? It’s okay, you don’t have to rush. Daughter: Well mum, I didn’t want you to shout at me for not doing … More Unlearning some of the African parenting habits I inherited

Dear wife, I married you slim (The challenges of the expanding waistline after marriage)

A couple of nights ago, my husband, Uvie, and I were looking through some of my old pictures from as far back as when I was about 5 years old. There was a huge smile of admiration on his face with lots of “ooh, you were so cute,” and “aw, my wife is so beautiful.” (The man really does … More Dear wife, I married you slim (The challenges of the expanding waistline after marriage)

What to do when your husband doesn’t listen to you 

Women are intuitive. We just know stuff, deep within, even when there are no facts to back them up. A woman will usually “see” the outcome of a situation long before it happens. Yet, I haven’t met a woman who has not experienced some level of frustration because her husband is not listening to her … More What to do when your husband doesn’t listen to you 

If you respond to conflicts this way, you’re exposing your marriage to the destroyer

  I slept, but my heart was awake, when I heard my lover knocking and calling: “Open to me, my treasure, my darling, my dove, my perfect one. My head is drenched with dew, my hair with the dampness of the night.” But I responded, “I have taken off my robe. Should I get dressed … More If you respond to conflicts this way, you’re exposing your marriage to the destroyer